Soulmate…

May 18, 2007

Soulmate (or soul mate) is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, sexuality, and/or compatibility.

A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one’s soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join.

However, not everyone who uses these terms intends them to carry such mystical connotations; they are sometimes used simply as an expression of strong emotional feeling for someone.

ClassicalGreek mythology – Originally humans were combined of 4 arms, 4 legs, and a single head made of 2 faces, but Zeus feared their power and split them all in half, condemning them to spending their lives searching for the other half to complete them. This theory was presented as a half-serious story by Aristophanes in Plato’s Symposium, after all the participants at the Symposium ("drinking party") were charged to philosophize on the topic of love.

Ultimately the consequence of this notion is the unfortunate reality that soulmates often possess the ability to inflict serious emotional injury unto their twin flame, greater than any other being could. This often results in the separation of idealized love, due to the severe emotional impact. Many soulmates are destined for an eternal search, not for lack of meeting, but rather lack of acceptance. The encounter is often analogous to the collision of matter and antimatter, a violent explosive reaction will occur, but if held through to completion only pure energy, and thus harmony, will result. A Soulmate can also be a person who is not of the gender they are naturally attracted to or compatible with as a conventional romantic couple. This can cause a lifetime of profound sadness and depression as there is no possibility of resolution. By definition, a soulmate is the one person on this earth that completes you, complements you, and is your "better half." Most people will, unfortunately, never meet his or her soulmate. It is that one person that you become one with; emotionally, spiritually and physically. You connect with that one person on a whole different level, and all else become insignificant. You are yin, they are the yang. One balances and steadies the other.

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‘aksi vs re-aksi’ dan bagaimana kita menilai…

negri ini kata-nya udah punya komitmen buat ber-demokrasi dan lebih ber-tanggung jawab, mau-nya sih lebih demokrasi dan lebih ber-tanggung jawab lg kalo dibanding-in sama jaman2 jahilliyah dulu itu…

pada saat seseorang jd public figure (yg banyak ber-hubungan sama orang laen), seseorang itu udah se-harus-nya menyadari bahwa dia bakalan dapet banyak pujian (kalo hasil kerja-nya memang bagus) atau dapet kritikan (kalo hasil kerja-nya nggak bagus)…wajar toh…

entah berapa bulan yg lalu gue dapet kiriman tulisan, dapet forward imel dr temen se-kantor (yg sumber asli-nya pun gue nggak tau dr mana, yah maklum-lah…nama-nya jg imel forward-an, sering-an nggak jelas sumber utama-nya dr mana…)…mmhhh…sebener-nya isi-nya lebih me-ngarah ke kehidupan pribadi tapi bisa jg di-adaptasi ke hal2 lain-nya untuk kalimat2 ter-tentu…

although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I’m rseponsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life…bad things happen; how I respon to them defines my character and the quality of my life…I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have: life itself…

wajar aja kok kalo kita bikin kesalahan, atau orang laen menilai bahwa apa yg kita lakukan adalah ’salah’, tapi "bagaimana sikap kita dalam me-respon penilaian orang laen tersebut", itu adalah sesuatu yg menentukan karakter dan kualitas hidup kita sebener-nya…buat kita sendiri ataupun buat pandangan orang laen…

dr tulisan ini gue seperti di-ingat-kan kembali bahwa kita harus berusaha untuk nggak panik, berusaha untuk ber-pikir jernih, nggak asal labrak…pikir-kan apa akibat-nya kalo kita maen labrak gitu aja…orang akan menilai dr reaksi apa yg kita keluarkan terhadap satu penilaian (atas perbuatan kita)…apalagi kalo itu adalah reaksi dr orang ter-pandang (ataupun dr tim sukses-nya) yg lg cari dukungan buat jd orang #1 di Jakarta…

anda semua tentu bisa kasih penilaian yg fair, kan… 

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